The major teaching tool of our evolution has been the continuing experience of challenging relationships to which we have been drawn in spite of repeated failures in the past. The most important seven words in that process are not, “I love you,” “I love you, too,” but, “May I give you some feedback?” “Yes.” I learned the Relationship Feedback Technique during The Legacy Center Leadership Program described in the November 2014 Let Magic Happen newsletter. The approach is demonstrated in the 6 minute video below.